Tuesday, March 31, 2020

Best Salt Dough EVER

Lilly and Warren both love, love, love making things. It's a normal, regular part of our Saturdays. Last week, made collages for their Mom's birthday.
They cut up a bunch of pictures I had printed at Walgreen's.
Lilly baked this cake ALL BY HERSELF...and then, she frosted it using a ziplock bag!!
One of their favorite things is playing with playdough.  

The benefit to this salt playdough is that they get a DOUBLE benefit. First, they get to actually MAKE the playdough. Then, best of all, they get to MAKE things OUT of the playdough...

So -- here's the basic recipe (off the internet)...

BEST SALT NO-COOK PLAYDOUGH RECIPE:

Ingredients

1.5 cups of flour
1/2 cup of salt
2 tbs of cream of tartar
1 tbls of oil
Food coloring
1 cup of boiling water

Directions: Mix all ingredients except the boiling water together into a large mixing bowl Add the boiling water and mix well (Note, the food coloring will mix in better if added to the boiling water)

Please take care when using boiling water around children.

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Full disclosure -- we forgot to put in the cream of tartar -- and I don't think it made any difference. but maybe the texture of the playdough is better with that...I'm not sure.

Here's the thing...LET THE KIDS ACTUALLY DO EVERYTHING BUT HANDLE THE BOILING WATER.

Lilly and Warren got the bowls out of the cupboard (they were each making a batch)...and they found the measuring cups, and the measuring spoons...then they found all the ingredients and set them out on the table. (this is the point where I'm realizing I shoulda taken a picture)…

Lilly read the directions out loud, so both kids knew EXACTLY what they were going to do...

Lilly got dibbs on the color BLUE...so Warren was stuck with red, (which always turns out pink).

The most fun part of making playdough is the kneading...and kneading...and kneading. And that takes some time.  It helps if you stick the playdough into a plastic bag...then, the kids' hands don't get so messy...

The kids stored it in little ziplock baggies...and, if they don't let it sit out (it will dry hard), it will stay playable for months.

And I didn't tell them this part yet -- but if you LIKE the ornament and/or thing you make -- you can bake it in the oven. Varnish it -- and it will last for years.

Just ask the little pig ornament who's been hanging on my Christmas Tree since 1981...


Monday, March 30, 2020

Hemisphere Bistro


Three weeks ago -- My son Elliott bought a new suit. Then, he remembered his mother, his wife, and his daughter ALL have March birthdays.  (I'm not sure in which order those two things happened.)

The point is -- he made reservations at the ritziest place in town -- and the four of us were off for a VERY SPECIAL EVENING OUT.

Here's how you know it was VERY SPECIAL....besides the fact that Elliott is wearing a SUIT.... I am wearing a SKIRT -- Lilly is wearing a DRESS -- and Emily is wearing HIGH HEELS.

Holy Cow.  These outfits were so unusual for all four of us -- we might as well have been in a Halloween Costume Contest...and I expected our waitress might be a unicorn.
The place, Hemisphere Bistro, is VERY UPSCALE...
I ordered the steak...and every protein came with two side dishes.
You also had to pick a sauce.  Lilly ordered the lamb shank, with Huckleberry Jam
The food was DELICIOUS...
I brought along my usual assortment of restaurant games...we did the conversation cube...
There are cards, with simple questions -- and everybody picks a card, reads the question, then we take turns answering. Lilly LOVES this game.  Things like....

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you choose?

Who was your favorite teacher?

If you could have one wish, what would it be?

Funny...two weeks ago, our answers were very flip and we all wished for different things.

But -- if we were asked that question today -- I'm sure we'd all come up with the same answer.

Everybody I know wishes there was no such thing as the Coronavirus...


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Our dinner happened on Friday, March 13th.  A few days later, all the restaurants in the State of Iowa were shut down...and honestly -- we did not see that coming....

Saturday, March 28, 2020

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME..!!

Okay -- this post is about the party that never happened.  Or, to be more precise -- the party that has NOT YET HAPPENED.

Last year was my milestone 70th birthday party.  I wanted to do something MAJOR...maybe even ramp up a girlfriend-cruise...you know -- really CELEBRATE!!  But, for a lot of reasons -- mostly John's bout with dementia -- it just didn't work out.

So -- okay -- THIS year, I have another chance.  EXCELLENT.  In February -- I sent out this email:

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RITA IS THROWING HERSELF A BIRTHDAY PARTY 

I'm inviting my sisters, cousins, friends and their daughters.....to join me for an old-fashioned 1949 pot- luck-Sunday-Dinner meets a 2020 girls-night-out. 

I'll provide the FRIED CHICKEN...and my guests will bring side dishes. 

We'll eat a delicious meal -- then break up into several groups to PLAY SOME GAMES...


Who: The Women, daughters and granddaughters in my life....

Where: Boll's Community Center (428 River Drive, Princeton, Iowa)

When: Sunday, March 29, 2020 -- 1:00 PM - 4:00

What you need to know...

• Bring a dish to share. (let me know what you want to bring -- I'll keep the master list, and will be sending out email updates.)

• Wear an apron. (I'll have plenty of extras)

• Bring a wrapped white-elephant gift. These will serve as our game prizes...Use your imagination. It's the perfect opportunity for you to REGIFT....

• I'll send email updates and reminders.

LOVE, Rita

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Of course, then, the sky fell in.  Obviously,  I won't be having a party any time soon...and I know my birthday party is not a pimple on the ass of the world.  

This is definitely a crisis situation, and our gift to each other is that we all must STAY HOME...some of us have been ordered to shelter in place.  Wow.  A term I never heard in my entire life...

So -- here's my alternative birthday party.  SEND ME AN EMAIL and let me know what you are doing TOMORROW.  March 29th....on my birthday...

I am always a little disappointed when a Christmas cards doesn't have notes in them...so don't just wish me a Happy Birthday.   Please participate in my QUARANTINE birthday celebration....

Tell me what your plans are for this beautiful spring Sunday...what the weather is like where you are -- send me a recipe, or a picture of yourself at your sewing machine.  I'd love to hear how you are surviving this quarantine.  Recommend an interesting website, blog or favorite book.  Help me celebrate my 71st birthday!!

My email is:  farrorita@gmail.com

THANKS...!!

Friday, March 27, 2020

Pedicure


Two weeks ago -- BEFORE THE SKY FELL IN -- I was looking forward to a little day trip to Iowa City to have lunch with my young friend, Anne.

Iowa City is halfway for both of us...and Anne knows all the best restaurants AND thrift stores!!

But -- as I got closer to I-80 -- it was pouring down rain. And that road is SO BUSY...I decided to tap out. I called Anne to cancel.

So, I found myself in Davenport at 9:00 in the morning.

OH MY GOD...IT'S A FREE DAY. I CAN DO ANYTHING I WANT...CAL IS TAKING JOHN OUT FOR LUNCH...NOBODY NEEDS ME TO BE ANYWHERE OR DO ANYTHING...

WHAT TO DO, WHAT TO DO???

I KNOW -- I'LL GET A PEDICURE..!!

I treat myself to a pedicure every two or three months. I go to KT Nails on 53rd Street in Davenport -- and Helen does a GREAT job. I usually pick out five colors of polish -- and then, she paints some kind of suitable art on my big toe. I've had Christmas trees...fall leaves...hearts...flags...well, you get the idea.
Hummm...from 2015? I'm guessing it was at Halloween time...
Sitting in the wonderful massage chair is A BIG ELEMENT of my pedicure joy!!

The trouble is, getting a pedicure requires some advance planning. For one thing -- I should be wearing a skirt, or at the very least a loose fitting pair of knit pants. Because Helen does that wonderful massage.you know -- with the hot towels -- she starts with my toes and moves all the way up the calf of my leg...But, on this day -- I'm wearing a tight pair of black jeans. Bummer.

Also -- I should have flip flops...but on that day, I was wearing stockings and dressy shoes (really, Anne -- I was all dressed up for our day!).

I'm already 20 miles away from home...what to do...what to do.

Well, first step is to look in my trunk. BINGO -- flip flops. Check.

Now...about my tight jeans problem...OF COURSE I did what anybody would do. I drove to the nearest thrift store (STUFF) -- and went directly to their clearance rack. 80% off. And I found a brand new LuLu skirt (butt-ugly) which had been $3.99.

So, I paid less than $1...
Hey -- for a ONE TIME wear -- that was the right price!!
And my pedicure?? FANTASTIC.
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This post was intended to be light hearted -- and I had this nice picture of the ugly skirt....

But, as I wrote it...I was very sad that I missed that day with Anne.  When will we be able to reschedule?

And that pedicure?  It could be my last one for a very long time...

Then it really hit me.   Like so many other small businesses in this country -- KT Nails is closed.  Will Helen and her employees be able to survive?  They'll have absolutely NO INCOME...for how long?

There are so many pleas for help right now...and I am so fortunate to be retired...on an actual FIXED income that isn't in any danger...

I'm saving so much money by STAYING HOME -- I've decided to send Helen the money and pretend she's giving me a pedicure.

As a matter of fact -- I'm gonna splurge and pamper myself.  I'm going to give myself a virtual pedicure once a month while this thing is happening...

Thursday, March 26, 2020

St. Patrick's Day Party

BEFORE the sky fell in -- the TMBC planned a little St. Patrick's Day party at our Aunt Adda's house.
This is my favorite picture of the day -- as a hostess gift, I gave her a roll of toilet paper...
She baked me an angel food cake -- with 7 minute frosting -- remember that?
We had some GREEN gifts for her...(LP wrapping!!)
Land's End Jacket!  (with a hood!)
Homemade corned beef hash!!
We had no clue that this would be our last breakfast...for awhile...maybe a long time...
Aunt Adda had a special gift for me.
A tablecloth she EMBROIDERED..!!
I'm missing my Tuesday morning downloads already...

And, at this point, who knows when things will be back to normal.

Wow.  Normal.

That feels like such a far reach right now...

Here's how you do normal.  Stay home.  Make a list.  Do something worthwhile.  You'll feel better if you can ACCOMPLISH something.  Clean.  Sew.  Cook. Sew some more...walk on your treadmill.

Hah...who are we kidding?  Just sew again...

Here's my best idea -- (and more fun than the treadmill)...Talk on the phone to people WHO ARE ALSO HOME RIGHT NOW....

Remember telephone calls?  Really...I forgot how enjoyable it is to actually TALK ON THE PHONE.  Give it a try...

Another good idea???  DO NOT WATCH THE NEWS...!!

Wednesday, March 25, 2020

Lilly's 11th Birthday

I'm taking a Coronavirus break today. Really...since everything feels so ABNORMAL right now -- I've decided to just blog about NORMAL for a few days...

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The week of Lilly's Birthday -- we had no idea how much our lives were about to change. Honestly...we just went about our business -- willy nilly. Having parties -- getting together. Going place and doing things...

IT WAS CRAZY....!!

March 9 is Lilly's actual birthday. And I usually make her a steak dinner.
I can't believe I took a picture of the table!
These are filet Mignon steaks. Wowza!!
Some fresh veggies, too
And HUGE shrimp.
Time to open gifts. Warren may have thought he was not getting enough attention...
Lilly loved her gift. I bought her a professional kazoo.
Because -- yes -- I am THAT kind of Grandma!!

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

The Facemask Delimma

First -- let me say I have become very disheartened about sewing facemasks. Mostly because my son, Ross, R.N., told me I was wasting my time. In his opinion -- no hospital would allow the use of home-sewn masks -- and the actual manufacturers of sterile disposable masks are gearing up bigtime to meet this increased demand. His argument went something like this, "they're not gonna pass up the opportunity to become millionaires, Mom..."

Also -- he warned me against the dangers of a lot of old people, walking around wearing facemasks for long periods of time.  "Your breath will trap warm air, and you'll get sick from the bacteria in your own body..."

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Hey -- I'M STILL MAKING THEM...don't get me wrong. Tweeking the facemask pattern has become one of my short-term life goals. (along with NOT getting sick, doing one mile a day on the treadmill, and not strangling my husband.)

I guess the thing is to exercise a little common sense about when and where a facemask might be necesssary.

My friend Joanne Ross, who has a Masters degree in Textiles (or maybe a PhD -- I lost track)...forwarded this information to me. She knows A LOT ABOUT fabric -- and this sounds like some good information for us to consider:

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FABRIC CHOICE FOR MASKS - SCIENCE

As you read this, take a few deep calming breaths, and find a location that is calm so you are able to follow and fully understand the content. During times of stress, such as these, it is more challenging to comprehend information for ALL humans.

What is the debate about fabric choices for masks actually discussing?

You quite possibly heard this statement on the news "simply wearing a mask can make you sick."

If you have, what are they saying exactly? Are they saying you'll get the Corona-Virus from wearing a mask? No. They are speaking vaguely, probably initially so everyone wouldn't go out and purchase all of the masks in America so we could get them to our healthcare professionals, that need them more than the rest of us.

What is really being stated is this. If you wear a mask, you can become sick because we have bacteria in our body secretions, such as sweat, saliva, and others.

Wearing a mask transfers oil from your skin onto the fabric and when you sweat it transfers onto the fabric and then you combine that with your body temperature it creates a nice cozy home for Bacteria. If you wear that mask for a long time without washing with bleach or disinfecting detergents, it will grow and multiply - and THIS can make you sick even though the bacteria originated from you and you were healthy before you started wearing the mask.

So, then -- How and When should you wear a mask?

Have several masks ready, and wash them. If you sweat or get too hot, change more often and you should never wear it all day long.

You should only wear a mask when needed.

1) If you are sick and within a small room with poor airflow, so if you cough, sneeze or talk, the virus (which becomes airborne) doesn't fly out of your mouth and land on those around you.

2) When you go out shopping and there are others walking in front of you that are sick with any virus. If they cough, the virus remains in the air and you walk through that air and the virus lands on you. IF it gets to your nose or mouth -- you become ill.


Which fabric is best for masks?
Synthetics. (manmade fiber content fabric) Such as polyester or nylon.

Why not cotton?
Cotton, silk, and wool are all-natural fibers, each was once alive and contains cellulose which is a form of sugar.

Why is that important?
Bacteria is a living organism that needs to eat to stay alive and cellulose is a food.

How about PUL or Baby Diaper Cover fabric?
No.
Why? Because it is coated with Polyurethane and will create condensation and with your body's heat, increase bacteria growth. It may also block air and not allow you to get enough Oxogyn.

What about Flannel?
Flannel, Minky, Velvet and any other fabric that has a hair-like surface will release small fibers into the air, which is why it's so messy to sew with as you cut it it breaks apart. When wearing it over your face, small fibers can enter the airway and end up in your lungs. Do not use it as a filter because it is NOT a filter and will increase your body temperature and cause you to sweat which will help feed bacteria.

What does a mask need to be a good mask?

1) Cool, lightweight fabric to reduce the chance of increased sweating.
2) Less Natural fiber, so bacteria have less to feed on. 50/50 Polyester to cotton or higher content of polyester to cotton.
3) An air filter (Stick and Tear) that is not too dense that it stops airflow but fine enough to block the viruses from entering between the spaces on the fibers as the fabric is woven and has gaps between the threads/fibers that are small openings for the viruses to get pulled into from a person inhaling as they breathe.
4) Machine washable in HOT water and able to withstand bleach.
5) A soft fabric so it doesn't cause abrasions on the skin and cause itching or a desire to move the mask while wearing it.
6) A tight seal, or form that doesn't have large gaps that act as open doors along the sides (cheeks), the top (nose) or bottom (chin) for any virus to be pulled into as the person breathes or inhales.

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Here's a random picture of me from LAST MARCH 24th...getting ready for my trip to New York City with my nieces Amy and Nicole...

ahh....little did we know, eh??

Facemasks Finishing & Elastic

This facemask pattern has evolved...so I'm bringing you along for the full ride. I can't believe I'm the only one in the world who realizes the unique properties of plain, old t-shirt fabric. It's soft, it stretches and molds to curves or corners...and it is SUPER CHEAP
I started with a long strip of t-shirt fabric...it's about 1 1/2" wide
At each side of the mask, I sewed the t-shirt strip RST.
Turn it to the backside, and stitch-in-the-ditch in the front. Cut away the excess fabric on the back.
Cut a piece of 1/4" elastic 25" long (this works for me -- you may want it to be a few inches longer or shorter)...use a bodkin or safety pin to pull it through one side...
Then, pull it through the other side...NOW sew the elastic to form a perfect circle!
To be fancy -- hide the joined ends in one side...and zigzag it in place.
Taking this step makes for a perfectly smooth piece of elastic -- both at your neck and on the top of your head.

Monday, March 23, 2020

How the Coronavirus Spreads

This is such a frightening time...we're dealing with a catastrophic event like nothing in our lifetime. And there has been SO MUCH BAD INFORMATION....ugh...just two weeks ago, I believed -- well -- never mind what I believed.  I simply DID NOT GET IT.  

Like all of you -- I'm trying to figure it out...what I can do, what I can't do...what I should never do...what I should always do.

And this article explained so many things to me...in a few paragraphs, I actually SEE how this dreadful virus has arrived to our door.  And with this new information -- I have a much better understanding of what I can do to protect myself -- and the people I love...(thanks for sharing, Pat)...

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February 26, 2020

From: James Robb, MD FCA, former professor of pathology at the University of California San Diego

I was one of the first molecular virologists in the world to work on coronaviruses (the 1970s). I was the first to demonstrate the number of genes the virus contained. Since then, I have kept up with the coronavirus field and its multiple clinical transfers into the human population (e.g., SARS, MERS), from different animal sources.

The current projections for its expansion in the US are only probable, due to continued insufficient worldwide data, but it is most likely to be widespread in the US by mid to late March and April.

Here is what I have done and the precautions that I take and will take. These are the same precautions I currently use during our influenza seasons, except for the mask and gloves.:

1) NO HANDSHAKING! Use a fist bump, slight bow, elbow bump, etc.

2) Use ONLY your knuckle to touch light switches. elevator buttons, etc.. Lift the gasoline dispenser with a paper towel or use a disposable glove.

3) Open doors with your closed fist or hip - do not grasp the handle with your hand, unless there is no other way to open the door. Especially important on bathroom and post office/commercial doors.

4) Use disinfectant wipes at the stores when they are available, including wiping the handle and child seat in grocery carts.

5) Wash your hands with soap for 10-20 seconds and/or use a greater than 60% alcohol-based hand sanitizer whenever you return home from ANY activity that involves locations where other people have been.

6) Keep a bottle of sanitizer available at each of your home's entrances. AND in your car for use after getting gas or touching other contaminated objects when you can't immediately wash your hands.

7) If possible, cough or sneeze into a disposable tissue and discard. Use your elbow only if you have to. The clothing on your elbow will contain infectious virus that can be passed on for up to a week or more!

What I have stocked in preparation for the pandemic spread to the US:

1) Latex or nitrile latex disposable gloves for use when going shopping, using the gasoline pump, and all other outside activity when you come in contact with contaminated areas.

Note: This virus is spread in large droplets by coughing and sneezing. This means that the air will not infect you! BUT all the surfaces where these droplets land are infectious for about a week on average - everything that is associated with infected people will be contaminated and potentially infectious. The virus is on surfaces and you will not be infected unless your unprotected face is directly coughed or sneezed upon.

This virus only has cell receptors for lung cells (it only infects your lungs) The only way for the virus to infect you is through your nose or mouth via your hands or an infected cough or sneeze onto or into your nose or mouth.

2) Stock up now with disposable surgical masks and use them to prevent you from touching your nose and/or mouth (We touch our nose/mouth 90X/day without knowing it!).

This is the only way this virus can infect you - it is lung-specific. The mask will not prevent the virus in a direct sneeze from getting into your nose or mouth - it is only to keep you from touching your nose or mouth.

3) Stock up now with hand sanitizers and latex/nitrile gloves (get the appropriate sizes for your family). The hand sanitizers must be alcohol-based and greater than 60% alcohol to be effective.

4) Stock up now with zinc lozenges. These lozenges have been proven to be effective in blocking coronavirus (and most other viruses) from multiplying in your throat and nasopharynx. Use as directed several times each day when you begin to feel ANY "cold-like" symptoms beginning. It is best to lie down and let the lozenge dissolve in the back of your throat and nasopharynx. Cold-Eeze lozenges is one brand available, but there are other brands available.

I, as many others do, hope that this pandemic will be reasonably contained, BUT I personally do not think it will be. Humans have never seen this (edited: animal)-associated virus before and have no internal defense against it. Tremendous worldwide efforts are being made to understand the molecular and clinical virology of this virus.

Unbelievable molecular knowledge about the genomics, structure, and virulence of this virus has already been achieved. BUT, there will be NO drugs or vaccines available this year to protect us or limit the infection within us. Only symptomatic support is available.

I hope these personal thoughts will be helpful during this potentially catastrophic pandemic. You are welcome to share.

Good luck to all of us!

James Robb, MD FCAP
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So -- here's what I realize now.  The main protection a facemask provides is that it prevents you from TOUCHING YOUR NOSE OR YOUR MOUTH when you are out in public, where infected people may have coughed or sneezed...leaving behind droplets.

So -- the 6 ft. of social distancing is bullshit. The real danger is not in the air we breath -- but in the THINGS WE TOUCH.

Because, if an infected person coughed on that box of cereal you're about to buy (A WEEK AGO, WHEN IT WAS STILL IN THE WAREHOUSE) -- and you bring it into your house....then, pack it away, then itch your nose...well -- BOOM.

So, if I'm wearing a facemask, it will keep me from touching my nose and mouth...okay.  I get that now...

But then, the big job is to wipe down (with soap and water) EVERY SINGLE CAN OR BOX that comes into my house.

  

   

Sunday, March 22, 2020

Coronavirus Face Masks

So -- here's the thing. I have some new links for face mask patterns...and, like EVERY KIND OF SEWING I EVER MET -- there are all levels of difficulty available.

This is the result of my own tweeking...but these masks go together quickly...and they might help. And they certainly cannot hurt...
Cut two pieces of fabric 10 inches by 7 inches.
Fold in half -- then cut away 1/2..as shown...this will be the TOP of your mask -- to cover your nose.
Right sides together -- Sew the top edge. Then, zig-zag some 1/4" elastic onto the seam.(to better fit your nose)
Sew a 1/2 inch dart in the middle of the bottom of the mask.
Make the dart on both pieces of fabric -- before you sew the bottom edge closed.
Turn it -- then topstitch the top and bottom. (the sides are open)
Put three pleats into each side (facing down)
I used a piece of t-shirt knit to basically cover the raw edges, and provide a channel for the elastic.
Really...doing the elastic this way, it is fairly comfortable.
It's just one long piece of elastic (25" works for me) -- looped through one side, then the other...
You can be creative with your fabric choices...
I've had so many emails about making facemasks...I tried to post this in a hurry -- I know a video would have been better....sorry...tomorrow, I'll post pictures of exactly how I use the t-shirt scraps to cover the raw edges, and at the same time -- provide a channel for the elastic.