Wednesday, March 5, 2014

THANK YOU...

THANKS so much for taking the time to send me emails last week -- and I enjoyed all the text messages from this year's Sew Expo. I loved all the pictures and getting your reports from the show. I've been corresponding with many of you for years now -- and it was heartwarming to hear that you missed me.

I missed you, too -- but I am glad you were able to carry on -- eating scones, laughing and visiting with sewing friends, taking interesting classes, and spending money on all kinds of new sewing treasure!!

You did the right thing!! But thanks for missing me...I missed you, too.

Here are some of my favorite pictures from past Sew Expos...with some of my favorite people. Of course, it would NOT BE POSSIBLE for me to find a picture of everybody -- but you can see that I DID TRY!! After all -- it is the BEST sewing party in America!! And nobody enjoyed it more than me...

 

ARE YOU GETTING TIRED OF ALL MY FABULOUS PICTURES?? I only meant to post a dozen or so -- but I just kept finding these REALLY FUN SHOTS...

REALLY -- this is AFTER I did a lot of editing...you cannot imagine how much time it took me to narrow down the choices...

I'll post more pictures tomorrow...

AND  -- what did I do last week while ya'll were frolicking around at Sew Expo?? You know I had to plan something special -- so I wouldn't miss you too much...hummm...

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Winter Puzzling...

Jigsaw puzzles have always been a part of our family life. It's funny how the process has changed over the years. When John and I first got married, we lived in an apartment in a Washington DC suburb. John was the one who liked doing jigsaw puzzles, and he loved the Detlefson paintings of the seasons. That was 1970 -- and our first jigsaw puzzles were four 500 piece Detlefson paintings. When we finished them, I tried to glue them together with Mod-Podge so they could hang on the wall. The art project was a big fail -- but jigsawing has remained a loyal winter friend.

When the boys were small, John would sit in the living room and work on a puzzle while the rest of us watched a movie. We have a small house -- there never was a separate family room or entertainment option. Ross was never interested in the puzzle. Elliott would occasionally sit at the table with John and find a few pieces.

For a time, Emily and Elliott lived here with us -- and they took puzzling to new heights. The two of them would start a 500 piece puzzle at 6:00 at night and be done before 10:00. It was almost like a race with the clock -- they were a wonderful puzzle team...

At some point, John completely lost interest in doing puzzles. We had the house to ourselves -- and in 2006, I was seriously trying to lose weight. In an effort to change my horrible nightime eating habits, I turned the upstairs guest bedroom into a PUZZLE ROOM. I would go up there after supper at night, and work on a puzzle for hours. John had turned the other upstairs bedroom into his office -- so we'd spend our evenings up there. Me puzzling in the front room and him watching ESPN across the hall. When I was getting to the end of the puzzle, I'd invite him over, and we'd tag-team the last 100 pieces or so. We had rules and everything. All the pieces were in the box, and we'd take turns...Hey -- stop laughing! I lost 100 pounds on that puzzle diet...

For the last couple of years, puzzling has become our AFTER-Christmas treat.  I take the Christmas tree down and put up a sturdy card table in it's place.   Lilly started demonstrating a love of puzzles when she was about two years old.  She can whip through the child-size puzzles on her own -- but she especially enjoys sitting with us and helping with the BIG puzzles. 
This was a beautiful farm scene from the White Mountain Puzzle Company -- one of my favorite companies!
When she walks into our house -- she runs over to the puzzle table to see what we're working on...
She has her own methods, and it is so interesting to watch.  And this kid will stick with a thing...she never gives up...
This winter, we have nearly turned puzzling into a contact sport. I jokingly said it's our Iowa Winter Olympic Event. The reality is that I set up every puzzle. I sort the pieces, and put the edge together. There is one really good chair at the puzzling table -- which benefits from the excellent overhead lamp. And when I am sitting there, John stays away from the puzzle table. Ditto -- when he is sitting in the chair -- I stay away from the puzzle. But Lilly will join whoever is working there. And, often, she gets to sit in the main puzzle chair ALL BY HERSELF...

There are a few secrets to EXCELLENT PUZZLING...and I even have a way to work on two separate puzzles at one time...

Monday, March 3, 2014

Spontaniety is a Choice!

The very best thing about being somebody's grandmother is that you REALLY get to think about the lessons you're teaching. Kids learn more from watching your actions than from hearing your words. I THINK about what I'm teaching Lillian.

She learns how to handle disappointment if she sees how I deal with it...She will learn how to be kind if she sees me actually doing it...

AND I want her to learn that her life will be better if she is flexible and SPONTANEOUS.

Think about it. There can't be any disappointment with spur-of-the-moment activities. If it works, great If it doesn't, oh, well.... Whereas, if you plan every detail of an event for weeks or months -- somebody gets sick, or the weather doesn't cooperate -- and all your effort is for naught.

Recently, she was in a snit about something -- and was sent to her room. After a very short time, she said, "I am coming out now, Grandma -- because I decided to get over myself."

A couple of weeks ago, Lilly spent a Monday night at my house. Which meant she would be coming to Tuesday breakfast with me and my crew.  We hadn't planned this adventure in advance -- but she was very excited to be included.
We got there first, and Lilly picked out the table we'd sit at...
Lillian used my camera to take a picture of her favorite pen pal -- Sandy!
Then she took this picture -- see the UNO and LCR games? THANKS, SANDY...
After our usual catch-up visit, and some UNO, Sandy created a craft activity for Lilly...
Finger painting with M&M's...!!
My favorite picture from that day. Sandy, Lillian and Linda.
Sure -- life is about the BIG, well-planned moments -- vacations, graduations, weddings, or trips to Disney World. But you can never really know. Sometimes, the moments a child remembers can happen while spending an ordinary day with Grandma...an unplanned day with Grandma's girlfriends, and a spontaeous game of  UNO...